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How hard is it to make a life decision?

Indeed, how hard can it be?

Isn’t it a matter of choosing the best possible solution to benefit oneself?

Isn’t it?

Perhaps.

But it’s easier said than done.

Shouldn’t the decisions you have to make involve only you?

I wished it were true.

But it isn’t.

Most decisions made in life have, if not direct, indirect aftereffects trust upon those affected by the decision made.

This is especially so if you happened to have made a BAD decision.

If it had been a GOOD decision, those involved would more often than not, not recognized it.

Theres a definite unfairness to it. But heck, life’s unfair…

To stay the way I am, or to go on a diet and exercise frenzy? (Mother’s request)

I like the way I look right now, but mom has already spent a fortune on a gym membership on me.

Decision made with pressure.

I’d like to live in a slow-paced life, but to live luxuriously, I’d have to have the means.

Since I don’t have the means, I’d have to live a fast-paced life until I have the means. And I have to consider the welfare of my family before my own.

Again, another decision made.

Surprisingly, the decisions made so far are rather easy as I’m looking at it from a third person view.

I know making decisions are a necessity in life.

I concur.

But I’d like to make a decision…just for me, and affects only me sometimes.

I’d like to be selfish too.

I can.

Right?